Failure is not
final, neither is success... it's what you do after any of these that shapes
you. This man has an interesting story that would inspire you. Read his story:
My Story
After my
secondary education, I decided to further my studies.
I wrote the
1st, 2nd, 3rd and 4th JAMB exams and they were all cancelled. I decided to take
the bull by the horn. I went to Enugu State University for a pre-degree
program. On the completion of the program, I was offered a course in faculty of
Science but the cultism in the institution as at then was unbearable for me,
having being attacked twice. I decided to use the 5th JAMB that was released to
study at University of Port Harcourt. Then ASUU had a protracted strike that
lasted for over six months, I needed to write a 6th JAMB and I scored 274 but
that score couldn’t offer me admissions as the two JAMBS were combined because
the strike entered another year.
After the
first 6yrs at home, WAEC too was cancelling my results and I wrote WAEC/NECO
four times. I was frustrated, mocked, criticized and called a failure. Some of
my classmates were already youth Corpers. Many out of pity told me to quit
because school wasn’t for me. The criticisms, mockery and name calling from
people that didn’t know what I was passing through compounded my issues and I
started thinking of quitting/suicide.
One evening,
my brother in-law/mentor told me “Ogechi nobody can frustrate or determine the
outcome of your life except you, don’t quit trying, you’ll be whatever you want
to be” I repeated that to myself over a hundred times that night and I assumed
the position of a CEO in my life.
I enrolled for
another pre-degree program in University of Port Harcourt, and wrote the 7th
JAMB and it was also canceled but thank God I passed the BASIC program. So to
gain admissions to do a bachelors program, I wrote JAMB 7times, WAEC/NECO
4times and Pre-degree 2 times.
However, when
I finally entered University, I passed Rivers State government scholarship
exams to study abroad but few weeks to departure, another government took over
in 2007 and cancelled the scholarship. But I told myself I must study in
Nigeria and abroad…..
People called
me a failure but, I don’t know if I am still a failure, if school is for me now
or not, or if am still bewitched as people said………………………
All I can
remember now is that I have done BSc in Nigeria, Masters in Safety and
Environmental Management in UK, have seven additional professional
certifications, qualified as a Chartered Environmentalist in UK and have worked
both in Nigeria & Scotland.
I have learnt
that setbacks are actually strongholds in disguise if we don’t quit trying.
I have learnt
that persistence wears off every resistance.
I have also
learnt as a Christian that if your faith says Yes, God won’t say No, only be
DETERMINED.
I give God ALL
the glory and shame to the devil.
Whatever
struggle(s) you're going through, it's just temporary set back. Believe and it
will end well.
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