The story of
the woman who countered extremism with her own extreme measures
Hassana was
only 12 when her mom gently pushed her into a deep ditch in the
backyard one
morning in August 2014.
The push was
not to kill her, but instead to save her from being becoming a child bride to
the Boko Haram foot soldiers who had just invaded their hometown of Madagali in
the northeastern Nigerian state of Adamawa.
Since 2009
when the death of its founder Mohammed Yusuf triggered the insurgency, hundreds
of women and girls have been abducted, sexually violated or killed outright
even as the sect continues to wage war against perceived ‘Western ideals’
including education for youngsters like Hassana.
In April
2014, the high-profile abduction of over 250 schoolgirls from the village of
Chibok in the neighbouring Borno state made the headlines. The capture of many
other girls remains under the radar; some of those released have admitted to
suicidal thoughts, due to the trauma of living – and being sexually and
physically abused – in the terrorist camps with the Sambisa forest base. Girls
aged 15 and younger have also been used in carrying out suicide bombings in the
worst hit Borno and Adamawa states.
Knowing all
of this, Hassana’s mum, the 47-year old Zainabu Hamayaji hatched a plan to
outsmart the terrorists as well as save her four children. Her instincts warned
her that Boko Haram would consider Hassana, her eldest daughter to be of
marriageable age and would kill her husband. She was soon proved right.
“They killed
my husband and many of the men here”, she tells this reporter in a
school-turned-camp in the mountainous town of Gwoza, declared by the insurgents
as the seat of their caliphate in August 2014. “Some of my children ran off but
the rest of us could not leave the house because they were killing people
running out of town. So many people were dying and couldn’t escape.”
Hamayaji
loosened her hair to look mentally unstable and began to roll on the floor for
several hours a day outside our house and in various parts of town. She
urinated on herself. She defecated on her clothes. Then she rubbed both all
over her body. Her neighbours avoided her just as flies swarmed to her.
The Boko
Haram extremists were sceptical at first. They had come knocking after a
villager mentioned that Hamayaji had a daughter old enough to be carted away
into captivity. She denied it and for that, they beat her mercilessly,
dislocated her shoulder with their guns and knocked out a tooth from her mouth.
“They didn’t believe me so they came every day. I continued to strip myself
naked, unplait my hair, roll in trash, put shit on my hair to make it seem like
I was really mad.”
Still, she
stuck to the script she had written – and so did her two young children.
“They asked
my two children if I was okay because they kept doubting me”, Hamayaji
reminisces. Both kids – aged seven and ten – swore that their mother’s insanity
had begun a while ago and that she used to frequent a psychiatric hospital in
Maiduguri, the state capital.
“My children
would cry as they were talking and the terrorists became afraid of hurting a
mad woman so they don’t have a curse on their heads.”
Driven by
that fear stemming from a ‘precedent’, the insurgents inscribed a warning on
the house to deter their Boko Haram comrades who might subsequently visit, from
attacking the Hamayajis. “They believed that if they killed a madwoman or took
her child, their military operations would fail. One of them reminded the
others about how their people killed a mad woman on another raid and her curse
affected them badly.”
Many of the
other women gave out their daughters to the insurgents in exchange for food
items and property stolen from other villages so they could take care of their
remaining children – some reluctantly and others happily. But Hamayaji was
unflinching in her resolve and methodical in her madness.
While in the
ditch, Hassana cooked the food items that her mother had pushed in along with
several jerry cans of water and matchboxes for her to cook and survive. She
defecated in nylon bags that decomposed around her.
Outside in
the compound, her mother continued her class act for nine months until Nigerian
soldiers recaptured the town in March 2015 and helped bring out the young girl
from the ditch.
“The
soldiers asked if I was a wife of Boko Haram and I said no”, she recalls. “They
didn’t believe my story until we went to the ditch.” Hassana, now 14, was
profuse in her gratitude for the depth of her mother’s love even though the
older woman does not believe her actions were extraordinary. “She told me, Mama
na gode (Hausa for ‘thank you’). You saved me. Thanks for your wise choices or
I’d have been dead.”
The soldiers
put them in a vehicle that brought them to the Gwoza camp. It is here that
Hamayaji tells her story without breaking into a smile at all.
As if by
habit, she peers intermittently beyond the large bullet holes in the wall to
watch the open yard where children, including hers are playing. Young Hassana
is wandering somewhere within the camp, celebrating the Eid festival that marks
the end of the holy month of Ramadan.
“We are safe
now”, she says, even though her worry is still clear to see. “We are safe.”
This story
was supported by the 2017 BudgIT Civic Media Fellowship
Source: Guardianngr
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