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In this days
of sexual waywardness & promiscuity there are alot of benefits that one
should note,of no sex before marriage; and I'll like to point out some to save
some few.
1.Hiv
Well today
we have more people living with HIV than we had in the time past due to
information/vaccines. Abstinence will prevent you from communing such
diseases/virus as this.Cuz in the case of marriage, tests are carried out
before consummation but casual relationships are based on beliefs and one could
have lied about their status.
2.Break Ups
It is easier
to walk out of a relationship with no sexual interaction,than one which has;and
that's very true, especially for the ladies .
My cousin
once lost the guy she was supposed to marry,she cried for many nights but she
moved on more quickly since there was nothing physical between them.So for the
sake of a safe heart you might want to abstain.
3.Sampling
This one is
more for the guys,once a guy starts having sex before marriage there's tendency
he might want to test all waters before marriage,leading him to a dip abyss.My
friend lost his virginity to his girlfriend last year,to cut the long story
he's turned to something else since then.
4.Less Cases
You hear
cases of rape and sexual abuses every day.If only these people where practising
abstinence,there would have certainly been a reduction of such cases.
5.Marriage
complications/Divorce
The truth is
those who held it till marriage are more likely to have less complicated
marriage as opposed to their fellow contemporaries.
When there's
abstinence there's trust because you believe if she isn't giving in to you;she
certainly isn't giving it to someone else. Although a cheat is a cheat whether
they are giving it to you or not; but genuine abstaining partners build much
trust on fidelity with their spouse.
When one
abstains before marriage he/she as no room to compare their partners sexual
prowess with their ex's there by reducing sexual tension."No man wants you
to compare him with you ex no matter what" hence this does alot of
salvaging since you have no one to compare him to.
6.Draws you
closer to God
Take it or
leave it those who abstain are more likely to get closer to God. It doesn't
make them better than you,but certainly helps them in their walk; Since they
are hardly thinking about sex unlike you.
7.You save
Money
Sounds silly
right,but morning after pills and sexual preventives don't come in cheap
especially flavoured condoms.
8.True Love
It is very
easy to find your true love when there's no sexual relationship. Most times
when sex is introduced in premarital relationships it clouds your judgement to
be able to see things " the way they are" most especially for the
ladies.
9.Prevents
death
Most ladies
die while trying to do an abortion,but abstinence will prevent such; also alot
of innocent babies that are killed and dumped into the bin,would have been
saved.
10.Helps you
focus
11.Make's
you respectful
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