1. Go and slim
down. Do not let people take you for his mother when indeed you are the wife. Most Nigerian men love to see you exercise and eat less.
2. Mind and
control your tongue.
3. Keep the
house clean.
4. Be
hospitable, how you receive his friends and families matter to alot. Make them
feel welcome by coming out to greet them, serve them water if there is no
drink.
5. Dress
neatly and smart always, look good for him.
6. Do not
disrespect Nigerian husband, they want to feel respected always but you can correct them with respect.
7. Treat him like a king, make him feel important and he shall treat you back as his queen.
9. Do not
always claim right.
10. Be polite
always.
11. Be quick
to say "I am sorry".
12. Do not
delay when he have to go out together with you. Start getting ready well ahead of
time and don't keep him waiting because they can be very impatient.
13.Men don't
like tension, make him smile and laugh around you and he will want to hang
around.
14.Men love
good food, prepare him good meals, as the saying goes "Good food is the secrete route to the heart of every man" even displayed in the garden of Eden
15. Men do not
like nagging. When you make your request, believe in him to do it in his own
time. No amount of nagging can change him.
16. Do not
belittle or gossip your husband to anyone. If there are issues that need be addressed,
find a quiet time to talk it out with him, most preferred after giving him good food and nice treat .
17. Do not prioritize
others ahead of him, Make him your number one; Not the children, your friends,
your family or anything around. it written what God has put together let no man put asunder.
18. Men love the spinal cord of marriage , do not withhold it. Never use it as a bait .
19. Be
disciplined and wise in spending.
20. Be his friend and stop acting like his mom.
21. Men are very jealous, do not get too close with the opposite sex on Social media. Seek his consent before accepting a male as Friend.
22. Do not
paint him bad to the children, help them love and appreciate him.
23. Do not
leave the home and children unattended.
24. Accept and
relate well with his family members.
25. Assist him in paying the bills, if you earn well.
26. Do not try
to interfere too much in his privacy like reading his mails and responding to sms. meant for him without his consent.
27. Stop
answering his calls without his permission.
28. Smile
always, even when you are exhausted from the domestic works. Constantly frowning
will scare him out.
29.If you
need his help, ASK. He cannot read your mind.
30. Stop
asking to know the total income and how he spend every dime. Just trust him
Written from the Long Chair!!!
Next week Wednesday comes, the college of marriage proper and the meaning of long chair.
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