A grieving
husband who slept next to his wife’s dead body in their bedroom for six days
says he couldn’t bear to see her taken off to a mortuary in a body bag.
Leasing
agent Russell Davison’s wife Wendy died at their home in Derby, England, after
a 10-year battle with cervical cancer.
He said he
was determined to keep her at home with their four children and not hand her
over to a funeral director.
The dad now
wants to reassure others that staying close to a loved one’s dead body is
nothing to be scared of.
Russell said
he washed and dressed Wendy’s body and placed it in a coffin – which he called
a “cocoon” – in the couple’s bedroom.
According to
New York Post, Russell insists it should be “the way we treat our dead,” saying
it allowed him and the boys to come to terms with their devastating loss.
Russell
said: “Wendy died very peacefully, fully sedated, in no pain in mine and
Dylan’s arms with our ever faithful dog Elvis snuggled up right next to her
too.
“She looked
absolutely beautiful, just like she always did in life: no effort, no make-up,
just radiant beauty.
“We have
been fooled by TV and films into thinking there is something to be scared about
with dead bodies – there is not, I can assure you.”
Wendy, 50,
was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2006 – just after the couple’s joint 40th
birthday – and was told three years ago she had six months to live.
But she
shunned chemotherapy and radiotherapy and embraced “natural health,” Russell
said.
The couple
bought a caravan and traveled around Europe, but in September last year
returned to Britain as Wendy’s pain became unbearable.
But she was
determined to die at home and was nursed by Russell and the boys until her
death on April 21.
Russell, also
50, said: “For a long time I have been determined to have Wendy at home when
she died.
“I did not
want her in the mortuary or handed over to a funeral director, I wanted us to
take care of her ourselves at our family home, and have her in our bedroom so I
could sleep in the same room.”
He said
keeping Wendy at home was like “an emotional decompression chamber,” which
helped the family come to terms with her death while she was still there.
Russell
said: “The idea of her being taken away in a plastic body bag hours after death
is so alien to us all now we really don’t think we could have taken it.”

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